I've been a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints for almost 16 years now. My husband an I have been married for almost 16 years. I currently teach the 8 year olds in Primary (Church).
there is a good article in it about caregivers. granted it is from an adult child's perspective, but it gives some good resources. It sort of applies to me since my husband is 19 years older than I am. If you have a chance, check it out.